I have the Christmas music up full volume as I write my Christmas cards with my favourite fountain pen! The only thing absent is the snow and this is the only time I miss it!! I love everything about December. The decorations are so very festive, the lights are twinkling and jingle bells are ringing. Oh yes, the Christmas trees! It is also my birthday month which means every day is a joyful celebration.
Yet as I write these cards I am filled with nostalgia as I remember each person and what they meant to me at various stages in my life. A few years ago, I visited a friend I hadn’t seen in a very long time. We picked up our conversation right where we had left it so many years ago and the reunion was filled with much laughter. I thought about all those years of not seeing her and realized I didn’t have regrets. I’ve learned to appreciate the ebb and flow of friendships. As much as I would have liked to remain frozen in a certain phase of my journey, I am so grateful I didn’t. I am thankful for every person I have met along the way and of their influence in my life. I admit though that I am surrounded by an emotion of wistfulness thinking of days gone by and my youth!
However, it is important not to get caught up in excessive self reflection, have unrealistic holiday expectations and dwell in the past. Staying focused and centered and living life to its fullest in the moment is the only way to create memories. Remember my maxim “Keep Moving” and put it to use. Sitting in front of a TV or computer for hours at a time probably isn’t the best way to create meaningful memories. Get out there and engage with the world. There is something to be said for the Kona beer tagline: “ One life right? Don’t blow it.”
Keep moving and start creating those beautiful memories right now that you can look back on with fondness. For those of you living in snow territory build a snowman or better yet live dangerously and make an angel in the snow and think of me!!